Suffering over things that have happened to us is nothing more than an argument with the past.
Lack of understanding is always painful.
Some of us are returning to sanity, because we're tired of the pain. We're in a hurry. No time to mess around.
The pain shows you what's left to investigate.
It's good that it hurts. Pain is the signal that you're confused, that you're in a lie.
We don't attach to people or to things; we attach to uninvestigated concepts that we believe to tbe true in the moment.
I love not rushing the process. Mind doesn't shift until it does, and when it does shift, it's right on time, not one second too late or too soon. People are like seeds waiting to sprout. We can't be pushed ahead of our own understanding.
It makes sense that no one else can cause you pain. That's your job.