You cannot make yourself feel something you do not feel, but you can make yourself do right in spite of your feelings.
It is not our exalted feelings, it is our sentiments that build the necessary home.
My books are based on emotions, feelings, relationships. In these areas women are experts, so it's not strange that the main characters of my novels are females.
If we would know true love and understanding one for another, we must realize that communication is more than a sharing of words. It is the wise sharing of emotions, feelings, and concerns. It is the sharing of oneself totally.
But feelings can't be ignored, no matter how unjust or ungrateful they seem.
Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business.