Any fool can have a trophy wife. It takes a real man to have a trophy marriage.
It's a good and exciting and energizing thing when we can start spending money on preventive, empowering education instead of continuing to spend it all downstream trying to pull families out of the river.
When we were saying it doesn't matter in the '60s and '70s and '80s, we didn't have the experience of enough kids in a culture when families were breaking down. It was just our best guess.
