Iris Murdoch Quotations

One of the secrets of a happy life is continuous small treats

There is a spider called Amaurobius, which lives in a burrow and has its young in the late summer, and then it dies when the frosts begin, and the young spiders live through the cold by eating their mother's dead body. One can't believe that's an accident. I don't know that I imagined God as having thought it all out, but somehow He was connected with the pattern, He was the pattern...

All our failures are ultimately failures in love.

I live, I live, with an absolutely continuous sense of failure. I am always defeated, always. Every book is the wreck of a perfect idea. The years pass and one has only one life. If one has a thing at all one must do it and keep on and on and on trying to do it better.

evil soon makes tools out of those who don't hate it.

Remember that the secret of all learning is patience and that curiosity is not the same thing as a thirst for knowledge.

What makes you imagine ... that anything of importance can be taught in a school?

Eating reveals the characteristic grossness of the human race and also the in-built failure of its satisfactions. We arrive eager, we stuff ourselves and we go away depressed and disappointed and probably feeling a bit queasy into the bargain. It's an image of the déçu in human existence. A greedy start and a stupefied finish. Waiters, who are constantly observing this cycle, must be the most disillusioned of men.

confession ran in the family.

Probably no adult misery can be compared with a child's despair.