Romola Garai Quotations

I can only do something that my sister or my daughter, if I have one, could watch and feel positive about.

I think the problem is that there has been a kind of backlash against feminism. I think women just didn't really see themselves winning that fight, and I think that probably led to a lot women feeling trapped in a perpetual cycle of disappointment - trying to be feminists and failing to be.

Normally, when you're working on something, there are other characters that you have alliances with, and you have unified goals with some characters.

I can't spend the rest of my life being pretty in a bonnet.

Postwar Europe was morally stagnant, and there was a lot of neo-conservatism.

My alter egos have changed a lot over the years. When I was a child, I was a black horse called Storm. Whinnying and jumping over bamboo poles in the garden took up pretty much my entire childhood.

I've always scribbled, and I still do it. I've written numerous scripts for films for which I think I'd be perfect as the complex, intelligent and, yes, modern heroine. Embarrassingly bad, all of them. I've had to come to terms with the fact that I'm not a writer.

When you talk to women who were working as print journalists or in broadcasting in the '50s, and then you talk to women who were working in the late '60s, there's an enormous difference. There had already been a huge transition. Then, of course, you get well into the '70s and there were women with children working.

The last thing a director needs is an actress who feels an ownership towards a particular character.

I try not to live in the future too much; that can make you crazy as an actor. There are so many people who are obsessed about their career path, like it's something which you can control, which fundamentally you can't.

There are still journalists who risk their lives in situations of conflict, versus those who sit behind a desk at 'News of the World' to report on whether someone is going out with somebody or not.

Nowadays, most women just assume they have a right to be in the workplace, and any kind of discrimination they suffer is sort of more creeping.

If I have to spend prolonged periods of time in a trailer, I go mad. Stuck in a metal box doing nothing, I lie there paralysed with boredom.

I've done a few costume dramas, and people say, 'What was it like wearing the costumes? Did they really help you with your character?,' and most of the time it doesn't make any difference. You're wearing something a bit weird, and it's sort of uncomfortable, but it doesn't really have a huge impact on the part that you're playing.

I cheated at the Model United Nations when I was 13 and had to get up and apologise in front of the whole conference.

Female ambition is such a complicated thing to play because it is an aggressive quality, and people respond very badly to women exhibiting any kind of aggression.

I am always naturally drawn to heroines that have human flaws because I enjoy people that have lived their life with courage and make big successes and big failures.

I would love to live free of the fear and sadness and real desperation that I think the effect of childbirth has on women, especially because we are expected to be so concerned by recovery from childbirth.

I get grumpy about the innate conservatism of our tastes; I love bold theatre, and I get annoyed when a heritage piece is really successful.

I have always been interested in gender politics, so I'm not that keen on doing things that don't represent a truth about women.

Our conception of 1950s underwear is a lovely vintage aesthetic, but actually, wearing stockings with no elastic and a girdle was heavy duty.

Films about women and their concerns are seen as frivolous, limited and, most damaging of all, niche.

I realise there's an innate paradox in promoting oneself on the one hand and saying, 'Oh, I don't want to be famous,' on the other.

I get quite disappointed that we're still telling stories that I think are problematic in terms of what they're saying about women.

I wish I was a more adventurous person in a way. But actually, security is a really big deal for me.

The point of being a movie star is that people cast you in a role. Actors tie themselves in knots trying to get out of that.

When I was a child, I always wanted to be funny and to please people in my family. As you grow up that instinct becomes more refined, but it's still there.

There are people who you see on screen and think, 'Wow, that's a slim person,' and in the flesh they look nearly dead.

My main ambitions, really, are in the theatre.

I wouldn't want to direct - I think that's a very different job. You have to be a very specific type of person to do that.

I'd always try to get a C, maybe a B. Other girls would trot off a brilliant essay and go off to Oxford; I'd think: 'Where is the justice?' I took A-levels in English, history and theatre studies and got three Bs.

I'm an actor. And like a lot of actors, it's very important that everybody loves you all the time.

I get nonplussed by all the Fifties retro-revival aesthetic. Would we really want to be in our pinnies in our kitchen weeping? I find the kitchen, housewifey aesthetic repugnant.

I was brought up with a very strong sense of what can happen if your society starts to chip away at the small victories women have won for themselves.

I was mad until I was about 25. Completely out of control with my emotions. Everything that happened to me was a tragedy. I've been much happier over 25.

Someone like David Tennant is able to embrace people's love for 'Doctor Who' in a totally positive way. I have huge admiration for people who are able to do that.

I think one of the reasons I've done so much period work is because I feel so depressed by how society chooses to represent women in contemporary work.

There are American directors I'd really like to work with, but I don't know how much I want to be sitting in my house, doing the rounds of meetings with CEOs. You have to be really hardworking to do all that, and I'm lazy.

Writer/directors are, for me, the most inspiring people to work for because they are the person on set that knows the answer to all the questions. They have the most invested in the project because they've been with it from conception.

There's no way I could ring up a company that was lending me a red-carpet dress and say, 'Do you have it in a 10?' Because all the press samples are an 8 - I would say a 'small 8.'

There was quite a lot of lying around in fields at Stonar, a small independent girls' school in the country near Bath. It was a non-selective school and the right environment for me: academically not particularly pushy.

It's a sad fact that a lot of those countries who haven't been involved in the war in Iraq have taken far more responsibility for rehoming people displaced by the war than Britain has done.

I was 20 years old when, despite mass protests against military action, Iraq was invaded in 2003 - it didn't make for motivated political participation, I can tell you.

I'm a feminist. God, yes! A bra-burning, building-burning feminist.

Increasingly, it's actresses doing the big fashion advertising campaigns, and now there's no distinction between actresses and models.

In a way, I'd rather go into an interview and be disliked, and have unpleasant things written about me, than to have a wonderful, glowing article written that is in no way a reflection of who I am.

If you are an actress in L.A., on your 40th birthday they should just hand you the keys to the lunatic asylum.

If you are a 19-year-old woman, there are very specific things that directors and the people in positions of power in the industry - who tend to be older men - are going to want you to be and do. They are not going to want some chatty, difficult, slightly spoilt girl.

If you have the opportunity as an actor to control your career in any way, then you've won the jackpot.

I love my home, spend as much time in London as I can, and try wherever possible to avoid travelling for work. Sometimes I think I'm really badly equipped to be an actress.

I read the paper pretty much every day, as well as getting news from the Internet and on TV. But I don't do social media at all; I'm a Luddite from that point of view.

When you're on stage, you build strong relationships with the actors, but it's a story you tell with the audience - you have to include them, you have to respond to them, they have to understand the narrative.

I think I was quite lucky in that I went to an all-girls school. I was never put in an environment where I had to be the other - the woman as opposed to the man - all the way through my education. I was never made to feel that way at home.

I have a very strong, probably slightly aggressive personality, and so that just ends up coming out regardless of what I try to do.

If you're going to make great art, you have to make it at a huge cost - you have to be prepared to sacrifice what other people think of you, other people's opinions, and you have to make personal sacrifices.

The language of freedom-fighting was so co-opted by the baby boomers in order to express their now-hopelessly compromised ideologies that no other generation could emulate it without a smirk. This has created an apathetic generation in the West, with young people no longer distinguishing between the old order and the new.

The advent of digitally enhancing images - and the fact that actresses weren't protesting against that - created an environment where big corporations felt like they had total ownership over the bodies of actresses.

I don't really want to play parts that I think are not fully developed or fleshed out, especially with female roles.

I want people to think I'm sexy, but to know also that I've got an ordinary body and not feel intimidated.

I think with the best actors, emotion is something that has no kind of check in them.

It's hard for actors to have to deal with the fact that they pour so much into their character, but the audience might have a negative assessment of them.

I love science fiction. I read a lot of science fiction.

I love '30 Rock.' Absolutely love it. It's a game-changing show.

I just don't believe you're capable of being an actor unless you have a desire to experience your emotions in a public way.

Motherhood so often comes in conflict with women's capacity to express and live their own lives.

A passion for any novel, and any character, can crystallise your ideas when you really need to be as open as possible as a performer.

If you read reviews that you think by their very nature are not respectful of the actresses involved or not appreciating the work as it should be, I think you should write to reviewers or comment and say, "Are you kidding me?"

I'm not interested in going to see films that massively overrepresent men over women. It's lik,e how much more have we got to say about this? Like men in war and dealing with their masculinity in conflict. I just think we've exhausted the landscape.

I would argue that something dark is lurking between the sexes, and that it is seeping out into cinema.

I'd actually really love to review books and films and plays, but you can't be an artist and a critic. I would love it if I could.

I've worked with actors who tell everyone what to do in the scene - that makes me go pretty atomic.

Normally, when youre working on something, there are other characters that you have alliances with, and you have unified goals with some characters.

Women don't question themselves when they enter into a story that has male characters, but men do question the validity of a female narrative.

I feel that it's important to fail now and again. For instance, if I go for a job and I don't get it, that makes me not a better person, but more balanced, more aware of what life is really like.

I really like films and plays that cross over different genres. So I'd like to do something that you think is a drama and then you think is a supernatural thing and then becomes a drama again. That's very vague.

I would like to know that I was still going to be employed as a woman well into my 60s. In acting terms, a career that spans a lifetime is a very hard thing to achieve, particularly as a woman.

You don't have to conform to a very specific aesthetic today, whereas 1950s women definitely had to.

If you are an actress in L.A., on your 40th birthday they should just hand you the keys to the lunatic asylum.

I don't really want to do things that I feel like are going to send out a message that I don't really want to sign up for.

The worst thing you can do as a performer is to judge your character in any way, positively or negatively.

I think it's very repressive for a woman to be constantly told that she has to make films about women to better represent women, but then the reverse is not found.

We live in a society where children are expected to become adults overnight.

Acting is a strange job because your control is very limited.

I'm fundamentally a busy person; I spend my time doing useful things and profoundly useless things!

I think it is kind of important to direct someone so the character is appealing, but, as an actress, I find it frustrating because I think, "Why do I have to be more likable than a man would have to be saying the same line?"

As a kid, I really loved 'Jane Eyre,' I used to fantasise that the past was so much better and my lifetime was crap.