We must see with our own eyes and not accept any laid-down tradition as if it had some magical power in it.
You must personally accept the responsibility of improving your own life.
Just fully being skillful involves total lack of inhibition. We are not afraid to be. We are not afraid to live. We must accept ourselves as being warriors. If we acknowledge ourselves as warriors, then there is a way in, because a warrior dares to be, like a tiger in the jungle.