I don't think it's the responsibility of gays and lesbians to reinvent the family.
To keep the peace, I do show things to my family before they come out, ... It's like a 'heads up, here's what I'm writing. If you really have a problem with it or you're never going to talk to me again, give me a call.'
They're used to it, ... It isn't the first time I've written about my family history or dragged everyone into a book.
How can two gay guys be in favor of legal same-sex marriage and huge fans of the traditional family without wanting to marry?
The Commitment: Love, Sex, Marriage and My Family