Daniel Gilbert People Quotations

What’s so curious about human beings is that we can look deeply into the future, foresee disaster, and still do nothing in the present to stop it. The majority of people on this planet, they’re overwhelmed with concerns about their immediate well being.

In short, we derive support for our preferred conclusions by listening to the words that we put in the mouths of people who have already been preselected for their willingness to say what we want to hear.

Arthritic toothless people who love orgasms are more likely to reproduce than are limber, toothy people who do not.

People are drastically overconfident about their judgments of others.

We don't believe other people's experiences can tell us all that much about our own. I think this is an illusion of uniqueness.

Everyone who has observed human behavior for more than thirty continuous seconds seems to have noticed that people are strongly, perhaps even primarily, perhaps even single-mindedly, motivated to feel happy.

People are happiest when they're trying to achieve goals that are difficult but not out of reach.

Research suggests that people are typically unaware of the reasons why they are doing what they are doing, but when asked for a reason, they readily supply one.

If I wanted to know what a certain future would feel like to me, I would find someone who is already living that future. If I wonder what it's like to become a lawyer or marry a busy executive or eat at a particular restaurant, my best bet is to find people who have actually done these things and see how happy they are.

If you are like most people, then like most people, you don't know you're like most people.

People want to be happy, and all the other things they want are typically meant to be a means to that end.

Human beings are works in progress that mistakenly think they’re finished. The person you are right now is as transient, as fleeting and as temporary as all the people you’re ever been. The one constant in our lives is change.