I think that you love who you love, and there are people who you love that people aren't going to understand why, and that sort of doesn't really matter.
I was never the girl who walked down the centre of the hallway snapping people out of her way.
There are a lot of people who wait tables. And especially because you can do it at night and you can do your work in the day, she and I had a very similar experience.
I believe in following your instincts with the people that you like and who you like to be with.
I can understand in some sense, having played the character, how unimaginably frustrating it is for people to tell you that you can't love who you love, because you ain't going to change it, and so they have to get out of your way