Nigella Lawson Quotations

And, in a funny way, each death is different and you mourn each death differently and each death brings back the death you mourned earlier and you get into a bit of a pile-up.

At some stages of your life you will deal with things and at others you are overwhelmed with misery and anxiety.

But if you know that something has been really vicious, you don't read it, you don't let it into your head. What's damaging is when sentences go through your head and you burn with the injustice of it.

There is a kind of euphoria of grief, a degree of madness.

I can understand why those primitive desert people think a camera steals their soul. It is unnatural to see yourself from the outside.

Then again, they're not scripted and I feel it's virtually impossible to be anything but yourself when you're in front of the cameras and cooking so there is a measure of truth in what you see.

You don't go around grieving all the time, but the grief is still there and always will be.

Cooking is actually quite aggressive and controlling and sometimes, yes, there is an element of force-feeding going on.

I never taste the wine first in restaurants, I just ask the waiter to pour.

People who have fabulous childhoods have this sense that nothing is ever going to be that good again. With me, I have the sense that nothing is going to be that bad.

There is a vast difference between how things seem from the outside and how they feel on the inside.

It sounds like something on a very trite T-shirt, but life is what happens.

On the whole, I prefer Christmas as an adult than I did as a child.

I think maybe when you live with someone who is really very ill for a long time, it somehow gives you more of a greedy appetite for life and maybe, yes, you are less measured in your behaviour than you would otherwise be.

I never have plans for the future as you never know how things will turn out.

I wasn't good with authority, went to lots of schools, didn't like the fact that there was no autonomy.

There is something wrong about being photographed that has nothing to do with vanity.

You need a balance in life between dealing with what's going on inside and not being so absorbed in yourself that it takes over.

Anyway, what makes people look youthful is the quality of their skin and I don't think you can change that.

I was a quiet teenager, introverted, full of angst.

I am not sure about facelifts because I wouldn't want to be someone who just looks like she's had a facelift.

Gordon Ramsay makes me laugh because he knows that I'm not a chef.

In fact I am quite snappy and irritable, and I don't know if I'd like to make myself worse in that respect.

I'm not someone who's endlessly patient and wonderful.

I need to be frightened of things. I hate it, but I must need it, because it's what I do.

I know the crew so well, so I forget I'm being filmed. It's like cooking with a friend in the kitchen - you're talking, as you do, and maybe you're telling her about this wonderful way to prepare lamb chops - it's more natural, more honest.

In England and America people tend to graze all day long, but I think it's such a waste to be constantly picking at food because you then can't enjoy a proper full meal when the time comes.

'Statistically, people who have been happily married and then widowed tend to remarry.

Also, in a funny way, if you have been happily married there are no unresolved areas, nothing to prove to yourself after the other dies.

The modern world is personal; people want to know intimate things.

What I'm doing here is seeking to offer protection from life, solely through the means of potato, butter and cream... there are times when only mashed potato will do.

It's also quite early on in the relationship to start having babies but obviously because of my age, I can't just say I'll do it in three years' time.

They believe in marriage, which is great, but it's also because of their egotism. Children see everything according to how it impinges on them.

I don't wear anything in bed. But I'm not ready for a nude scene quite yet.

It's true that I wouldn't have written the first book had my sister and mother been alive. It was my way of continuing our conversation. It's also this Jewish thing of naming and remembering people, and I think there is a sense of keeping that side of life going.

Statistically, people who have been happily married and then widowed tend to remarry.

(In cooking), there is always room for careful tinkering.

I am determined that my children should have no financial security. It ruins people not having to earn money,

While I am sure there are a number of women who secretly wonder whether they are lesbian, most simply have, somewhere, a fantasy about having sex, in a non-defining, non-exclusive way, with other women.

It s easier to impress someone than to give them pleasure.

I took a fortnight off. But I'm not a great believer in breaks. I don't want to be rattling around inside my own head. I did feel I was spiralling into a Kathy Burke character and tried going out, but I prefer it here. Filming keeps me busy. It absorbs me.

I lurch from chaos to chaos. I can't find my driving licence and my clothes are everywhere - cooking is the neatest thing I do.

The thing I liked about writing about food when I started it was that I felt I was writing about food in a different way. Not like a food writer.

I used to refer to myself as Typhoid Mary. It wasn't that I was jinxed, I just seemed to bring ill fortune to anybody I was close to.

If I could go into the woods and kill a bear myself, I'd wear it proudly as a trophy.

You need a balance in life between dealing with whats going on inside and not being so absorbed in yourself that it takes over.

I was shy as a child. Now I'm not really shy any more, unless I'm with shy people. I find it contagious and I don't know what to say. But I don't think shyness is something one should feel apologetic about.

Some people did take the domestic goddess title literally rather than ironically. It was about the pleasures of feeling like one rather than actually being one.

I don't like conflict.

And cooking is about balance and harmony.

Tension translates to your guests. They'll have a much better time having chili and baked potatoes than they would if you did roast duck with a wild cherry sauce and then had to lie down and cry for a while.

I'm not much of a drinker. I'm an eater more than a drinker. So I feel that I don't have to wait to get a hangover in order to eat these.

Everyone wants to be young, beautiful and rich. I don't say that scornfully: there are worse things to want to be. But that's why, for example, people don't begrudge Kate Moss how much she earns for a day's work but will fulminate over the take-home pay of some fat, old Water Board exec.

Emotion is messy, contradictory... and true.

I think sometimes that people assume because I'm on television I'm an expert, but I think the whole point of what I do is that I'm not and I don't have any training. My approach isn't about a fancy ingredient or style. I cook what I love to eat.

I do think awful things may happen at any moment, so while they are not happening, you may as well be pleased.

Glamour really has to do with good lighting, doesn't it?

But I do think that women who spend all their lives on a diet probably have a miserable sex life: if your body is the enemy, how can you relax and take pleasure? Everything is about control, rather than relaxing, about holding everything in.

I think we all live in a world that is so fast-paced, it's threatening and absolutely saturated with change and novelty and insecurity. Therefore, the ritual of cooking and feeding my family and friends, whoever drops in, is what makes me feel that I'm in a universe that is contained.

I don't believe you can ever really cook unless you love eating.

Good olive oil, good butter, milk - they give food taste and depth and a richness that you cant reproduce with low-fat ingredients.

Cake baking has to be, however innocently, one of the great culinary scams: it implies effort, it implies domestic prowess; but believe me, it's easy.

I am always surprised when people read double entendres into my innocuous babble.

Sometimes it's good just to be seduced by the particular cheeses spread out in front of you on a cheese counter.

I don't believe in low-fat cooking.

Sometimes...we don't want to feel like a postmodern, postfeminist, overstretched woman but, rather, a domestic goddess, trailing nutmeggy fumes of baking pie in our languorous wake.

I was brought up an atheist and have always remained so. But at no time was I led to believe that morality was unimportant or that good and bad did not exist. I believe passionately in the need to distinguish between right and wrong and am somewhat confounded by being told I need God, Jesus or a clergyman to help me to do so.

You cannot truly say you live well unless you eat well.

I am not a chef. I am not even a trained or professional cook. My qualification is as an eater.

You could probably get through life without knowing how to roast a chicken, but the question is, would you want to?