When one door closes another one opens with great possibilities ahead
The man with vision always goes ahead of the man with visions.
With children... it is a fact that most parents criticize children more than they laud or congratulate them. We tend to be quick to criticize, slow to praise. We should be careful to keep the praise and the expectations far ahead of the criticism.
Remember that the horse that finishes a neck ahead wins the race.
Perpetual worry will get you to one place ahead of time -- the cemetery.