Guilt [is] a tool, rather than a weapon against the self.
It happened. It was awful. You aren't perfect. That's all there is. Don't confuse your grief with guilt.
Let the guilt teach you how to behave next time,
I wish I could say I felt guilty for what I did. I don't.
Don't confuse your grief with guilt.
Maybe time would not feel as heavy if I didn't have this guilt -- the guilt of knowing the truth and stuffing it down where no one can see it, not even Tobias. Maybe I should not be so afraid of saying anything, because honesty will make me feel lighter.
Maybe there's more we all could have done, but we just have to let the guilt remind us to do better next time.