I've been trying to tell him to do the dives that he does. He hasn't had his great meet yet. He has his head in the game. It's hard to read Kenny, but from what I see, he's where I want him to be.
I think grandmothers are more open, even more than mothers sometimes, to the goodness in children. We aren't always trying to push the children to do 'what's best' for them. They aren't being allowed to be children. What I think we should change is our perception of children.