My children were brought up with their grandparents, and I was brought up with my grandparents. I think the continuity of moving through life together gives people a certain pride and sense of security.
Having children with someone is the real bond.
Too often, older women are seen as victims, but I know lots of formidable women who have marvellous jobs as well as a full erotic life, and children and friends and family.
I’m the same weight now as I’ve always been-even before having children-but I have to say there’s been a redistribution of the flesh!