I really don't know how to be anyone else, and whenever I try to be anyone else, I fail miserably. Or I disappoint myself. It doesn't build my self-esteem, and it doesn't help me grow me at all.
Sometimes I pray when I really feel like I need God to help me with something, and sometimes we just have conversations. We just kick it.
Most people don't have so much talent that they can become a success all their own. We all need people to help us and lift us up.
If you can draw something from my life that helps, more power to you.
Even if you don't have anything, even if you've got a quarter in your pocket, to share with someone else who has nothing really helps.