Some relationships aren't meant to be Great Love; they're meant to be like a hot fudge sundae--enjoyable but not something you can acually live on.
It's good to learn early that every show is a family---complete with dysfunctional relationships, tough love, and plenty of occasion for forgiveness...
But there's the beauty of life beyond the bubble. It's possible for someone to see your wicked bits and still love you.
If you can learn to love yourself and all the flaws, you can love other people so much better. And that makes you so happy.