Then you're a bigger fool than I thought. Since when has any man ever been worthy of the woman he loved? It's only by God's grace that they love us in spite of ourselves.
there are elements of truth in all great fiction
I've always said men should study romance novels to find out how women think and what they want, both during the courtship phase and in a lifelong partner.
Romance writers and readers have one thing in common: We love men.