People have only one way to be.
In the way that women forget the pain of childbirth, men forget that they cry in movies.
The divorce has lasted way longer than the marriage, but finally it's over.
So much of what I see reminds me of something I read in a book, when shouldn't it be the other way around?
The only way to learn is to keep doing something new, and, if you're lucky, learning with people who really know how to do it.